If you’re planning or attending a wedding, we’re sure that the shoe game will be played at some point in the journey! Whether it’s at the engagement party, Jack and Jill, or even the wedding itself, this game is sure to be entertaining for you and your guests.

For those of you who don’t know what the shoe game is, the rules are simple. The [soon-to-be] newlyweds will take off their shoes, and hand one shoe to their partner – so the couple should have one of their own shoes and one of their partner’s shoes in hand. They will sit with their backs against each other. Someone from the bridal party will ask a series of “who’s more likely to…” type questions. To answer, each person will raise the hand with the shoe belonging to whoever their answer is.

45 must ask shoe game questions, 1

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Now that that’s settled – it’s time to come up with your list of questions! To get you started, we’ve compiled a list of some must-ask questions to get the ball rolling!


  1. Who is more romantic?
  2. Who made the first move?
  3. Who’s more ready to have kids ASAP?
  4. Who said “I love you” first?
  5. Who’s a better dancer?
  6. Who’s more likely to do the dishes after dinner?
  7. Who’s a better cook?
  8. Who’s a better gift-giver?
  9. Who’s a better driver?
  10. Who has the best taste in music?
  11. Who has better luck?
  12. Who’s a better listener?
  13. Who’s more social?
  14. Who is more popular on social media?
  15. Who’s the best dresser?
  16. Who has more shoes?
  17. Who spends the most money?
  18. Who’s most likely to kill the spider?
  19. Who’s more likely to be late?
  20. Who’s a better secret keeper?
  21. Who’s more dramatic?
  22. Who’s the funniest?
  23. Who’s more likely to spend a night at the gym?
  24. Who’s more likely to cry at a sad movie?
  25. Who wakes up earlier?
  26. Who goes to bed later?
  27. Who’s better with directions?
  28. Who’s more likely to be the driver when you are going somewhere?
  29. Who’s a better shower singer?
  30. Who would last the longest without their phone?
  31. Who’s messier?
  32. Who’s more likely to start an argument?
  33. Who’s more likely to talk their way out of a speeding ticket?
  34. Who can handle more alcohol?
  35. Who is the primary caregiver to your pets?
  36. Who is more organized?
  37. Who snores the loudest?
  38. Who takes the longest showers?
  39. Who spends more time getting ready?
  40. Who is the first to apologize?
  41. Who is the sappy one?
  42. Who flirts more?
  43. Who eats the most junk food?
  44. Who is more likely to get sunburnt?
  45. Who is more responsible?

Have any suggestions you’d like to add? Go ahead and add them to the comments section below.